so I met this back in October 2014 in person, he lives long distance from me, we kept in touch everyday, upto 5 hours a nice, got on very well, felt like I could talk about anything to him, we had a fight back at the end of June of this year, he was having some problems at work, losing his job, and Family problems. I said I thought you had feelings for me obvisiously I was wrong, he blew up and said I never said I loved you, which I didn't mention the word love to him. he said I don't have any feelings for you, and he said don't message me again goodbye. I never messaged him after the fight. But on the 8th of this month, he messaged me, i give you my number incase you like to text me, I didn;t respond, and a few minutes later, he said you do not want me to be back, I understand if you don't want me to text you. I responded with, its nice to hear from you, I told you months ago, how I felt about you, and you just disappeared, and now your back just tell me why, he replied, I thought about you, i missed you, i hurt you, but I want another chance with you.
I said there was other guys interested in me, he said I know, I saw what that guy wrote too you. I sent him a message a couple of days after saying- If I mean anything to you, and you want another start with me, then show me that. I can't wait for you to message me when you feel like it. I will move on if that's the way it's going to be. I am NOT just looking for a bit of FUN... I am looking for a real relationship. If you want a new start why are you not asking me to come and see you soon! He replied with this- Oh I'm really sorry for that.. I just mean to start slow once again darling. I'm for sure would be very happy to see you again and spend some time together, but with the job finishing soon, I have to work so would have limited time with you, I am very sad because I cannot change this, and now you feel like this.
I sent this in a reply to him- I've come to a decision
If yes great.
If you say no i'm moving onto meet someone else, and I mean it
This is your last chance
He said I would love to see you don't want to miss this last chance.
But Tonight was talking to him please see my other question for details-