Now, don't think all I care about is getting laid, because really I don't all that much. I just want to be more exciting to the opposite sex. Right now, I'm pretty much "husband" material. I'll do things and all the women in the room'll go, "Awww!!! You'd be the perfect husband!" And I believe they genuinely mean it, in a way. But no one my age is actually interested in a husband right now. I'm the kind of guy they want in ten years. I guess I'm not sexually interesting. So my question is, how do I become more interesting to those my age?
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I know this will sound ridiculous but if you get to the first kiss, this can be the thing that sets you apart. Sure, start with the nice husband material kiss but then slowly lace your hands through the hair at the nape of her neck and then slowly close your hand thus pulling her hair a little while you gently bite her lower lip. In order to get to that first kiss just be yourself and make her laugh and be a good listener but when you get the next familiar speech about "let's just be friends" from someone you are really attracted to just tell her straight up, head held high with no "nice guy" regret and say "I don't want to just be your friend, that won't work for me". Then see what happens:) Hope this helps.1