Most Helpful Girl
You can expand your hobbies, either really focus on some you are already interested in or pick up a new hobby. Keeping busy helps me a lot!
Most Helpful Guy
Well you've got the right mindset regarding focusing on yourself, but that doesn't mean you can't also be in a relationship and neither does not having those things you listed. Granted, it might be a little harder for you to find a girl, but girls are notorious for following their hearts, so if you win a girl over, she will be able to look past whatever you don't have.