We had a few nice dates. He asked me this morning if I want to get together tonight. I had tentative plans with my female friend so I confirmed with her and told him I have plans with my friend already.
Isn't it better that way? In my past relationships I would drop everything for a guy who wanted to see me that night. In the end he took me for granted.
I think that until your relationship is serious, you should not drop everything to see him that night. Let him ask the day before.
Do you agree that when a guy sees early on that she will see him all the time without advance plans, he will take her more for granted?