It's always one or the other. I have found a bunch of girls that have a similar personality to what I'm looking for, but I do not find them attractive at all. When I find a very beautiful girl she doesn't have the personality that I'm looking for (not that they have a bad personality). What should I do? Wait for the posibillity of a girl that I'm looking for to come around and hope that she's single and interested in me when she does? And please don't spout of the usual bullshit about how personality matters more, because I hate to rain on your parade, but it definitely doesn't make up for a lack of physical attraction. Plus I dated one of these less attractive girls and it didn't end too well due to me not being attracted.
Most Helpful Girl
I think it depends entirely on where you are looking. If you want to meet a fit tough girl go and check out a kick boxing class, smart girls tend to hang out at universities (not a uni party but around the actual buildings), you have to try and think about where someone with the personality type you're after would go. It's hard, but clubs and bars only provide a really random selection of women so nine times out of ten you won't find someone who clicks.
Then obviously approach who you are attracted to.
There are so many people on this planet that statistically finding someone who you get along with personality wise is... well you're going to have to kiss a lot of frogs... that's unfortunately just the way it goes.
In the meantime though, just continue dating (even if the personality isn't perfect) and have fun getting to know different types of women. Waiting around for the right girl will be boring and frustrating, so either actively seek her out or just date for the fun of it until she comes around.
Just on behalf of the female population, please don't be a total player and lie to get girls into bed and have fun that way. I'm not saying you are or ever would but disclaimer:)1
Most Helpful Guy
Well I'm in a similar situation and I as well have been told to lower my standards.
Pfft only ugly girls want guys to lower their standards because they aren't getting approached.
Anyways, I have met a couple of attractive girls with great personalities. The problem is they already had boyfriends. They are very rare and hard to find, and even rarer to find while they are single.
Here's some motivational music.