I'm seeing this girl and we're not official yet, but its going well and we're hanging out a bit. I still live at home whereas she doesn't and so naturally I have a bit more money saved than her. When I ask her on a date or to hang out and it involves money, i'm totally cool with paying because I really like her and money doesn't really matter to me as long as we're spending time together. She says she feels bad sometimes though and is kind of apprehensive to do things that cost a bit more even when I say ill pay. Should I pay all the time or let her pay for things sometimes? She offers to pay sometimes but i'd feel bad (and kind of emasculated) if she paid.
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I think you should let her pay for things. I'd get pissed off if my boyfriend never let me pay for anything. Even if you pay the majority - which is fine because you have more money than her, it's like a ratio thing then rather than a gender thing -, let her pay for drinks or something. Sometimes treating her to a free date would be nice but you don't need to do it all the time, no worries :)0