we've been dating for like 1 year, he's very obviously overweight but with a cute face and personality. His only interest is playing computer games. He literally could sit there play computer games from morning to evening. He got grumpy about trivia issues easily and always got upset with me. For example, if I couldn't decide what to cook for dinner, he got angry with me. I have a very good temper so every time I'll put up with him because I love him. But since we lived together we have arguments regularly, like he cares about his social circles more than me, his friend's words are more important than mine. When he got sick, I took care of him all night; when I got sick, he thinks I'm too noisy coz I keep coughing in public and he got embarrassed... Especially when I talk about my dream of having a family, he always avoid talking. But he does say he loves me and cares about me deeply. I'm so confused now... Because tonight he said: he's tired of me...
Most Helpful Guy
Ok you srsly need to take the leash and show him that he is a dicktard, call him an egoist and tell him these reasons. You don't wanna be his 'doormat', I guess.
You even say he is a grumpy fat bla bla so it seems you have pity for him (I sometimes got that disease aswell), you won't be happy if you don't find what makes you happy too?0
Most Helpful Girl
My honest opinion? If my boyfriend was like that, you wouldn't see me for dust. I'd be off to find a new guy well before it got like this. I set my ground rules early in the relationship, bit by bit. Any departure from those is by negotiation between the two of us.
Luckily, I have picked on a terrific guy right from the start. Our relationship just flows. This is how it should be for you. I think computer games being more important that you shows him to be immature and that he's just using you as a convenience. Do you really love him for using you? I think you are finding him a convenience, too! Get up, get out and find a guy who will show you some real love. A guy who will be your soul-mate, not just an accessory to a computer game.
You deserve better than this!1