Guys, if a woman says, 'I can pay for it by myself.' Just leave it be. If it is some trick that she is doing to see if you pay, do not date her. She is ruining things for girls who actually do want to pay for their things! It just depends on the woman :)
Most Helpful Guy
Because men are taught that they are supposed to be the ones to pay. Usually, you're supposed to offer at least twice. Modern times, it's supposed to be a meaningless gesture when most women offer to pay, once. Then men are supposed to offer, again. Then, if the woman offers to pay again, then you let her pay. That's how I've heard the rule. A way of appearing as though they are willing to pay, when they're really testing you to see if you'll actually let her pay.
I've overheard girls say, "I offered to pay, then he JUST LET ME!"0
Most Helpful Girl
I agree. Guys are always complaining women play games if that's true for them the they must be dating the women who do that. or maybe it's the guy who is eliciting that behavior. Solution So stop dating people who don't mean want they say. You'll find there are a lot out there who do mean want they say
I find it really disrepsextful if I say something and aguy goes in said I'm confusing him or I dont mean it. Ima n adult not a three year old. I know how to say what I mean Lol and I should not be held accountable for what other people do. That's really ba sresltionship steel. Leave baggage behind.1