I'm dating a girl who is 19, I'm 26. Does it really matter? Is she too young for me?
by the way. In my country being mature/adult begins at 18. I know that it starts at 21 in USA.
Most Helpful Girl
No age doesn't really matter. What matters is Maturity and Understanding.
My boyfriend, the love of my life, is 41 and I am 21 yo.
What Society has a problem with is the whole "young vs old" thing.
A 14 yo dating a 21 yo is WRONG! But a 21 yo dating 28 yo is okay.
I catch it all the time from peeps that i am too young to be with my guy. My dad was all over me about it until i pointed out 2 of my sisters were 21 yo when they got married and their husbands were 30 & 32.
Dad made all kinds of excuses why it is right for them and not me. So what did he do right after Christmas last year? He married our housekeeper.
She is 33 yo and he is 51 yo.
He says that is so different coz they both are over 30 yo and don't plan on having kids! So I just found out mom is now prego with twins AND she was taking fertility shots to get prego!
BUT IT IS WRONG FOR CASSIE TO BE LIVING WITH A MAN 20 YEARS OLDER THAN HER!
It is all a Societal conspiracy of " do as i say, not as i do".
You are only 7 years older than her, so it you both like each other, there is nothing wrong here!
ALSO... guys in their mid to late 20's are at the same maturity level "personality" wise as a girl 18 to 20 years old!
**If you want more, private/personal info on how i know all this, email me. I have dated way more guys than i should have for a girl my age. I do wish i could go back in time and change my life.2
Most Helpful Guy
Just be aware that her main attraction to you is security. In that you can help her with her life since your older you have more money.2