Should I be expected to like him the minute I lay eyes on him? He seems nice to talk to, but I'm scared we meet and there's nothing there! How will I know if something is there?
I've never been on a date with a man I didn't know before.
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You can't know what you will talk about in advance, so don't worry about it. If you knew, you wouldn't need him. Try to come in a good mood, not rushed or feeling crappie. Maybe do yoga and take a quick shower beforehand, or meditate, or do some relaxing get staring at an aquarium. Try and get to know yourself and see what you want, and your conversation will stay in places that are more in tuned to you.
Good conversation isn'tthe only indicator of a spark, try to look him in the eye, and asee if you feel anything you you guys lock eyes
don't worry about dominating the conversation, or keeping it going! A good conversation is about listening.
Are you comfortable? Are you nervous? Take deep breaths. The point is to enjoy the time you spend with him.
Try and cut it shorter than you want to, and arrange to meet again0