I'm feeling all the guys I have dated they just want to use me, they keep on taking me for granted, they don't take me serious, they just play around me, no communication and all they think about is sex, maybe I'm the problem but every time I talk to other girls they understand my situation so it means guys just don't get what women want and well now I'm thinking why not try dating my sex, to be honest I have never been attracted to a woman before, or even tuned on by lesbians but I'm willing to try as long as I get someone who gets me and wants what I also need from a relationship so why not give it a try. Am I being wrong or bad or selfish just considering what I want.
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Yeah so there are guys out there who have a pretty good idea of what women want. Also woman although more likely to know what you want it can sometimes mean double the drama yuck. I have a lesbian couple as one of my roommates and they have been having at each other I have actually had to explain a lot of female psychology to them separately because they couldn't figure out why the other one was p*ssed because they love each other but think the other girl doesn't care lol. They know how they like to have love expressed to them but didn't connect the dots to that's how they should express it to there lover. I found this very entertaining.
I would also say that the bi and lesbians who I know who talk about there sex life all say that woman know more about how to please a man then men do. I also know that some men actually spend a lot of time practicing and studying the art of pleasing different sides of women in bed and there are guys out there who are actually good in bed, like me ;-D
I think you should date siriously consider the type of guy you are dating because there are different types some more compatible with you then others. Trying lesbian is also a viable option and if you want to go for it. But more importantly set standards for them men you date and don't bend you may be single for long stretches at a time but if your raise your standards the relationship you are in will be more fulfilling and you won't miss the perfect guy while dating a douche1