Guys, Why does it seem like my boyfriend isn't into me anymore?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years... in the beginning it was great, he would surprise me with flowers and buy me chocolates and always wanted to take me out on dates. Now it's been a year since I've received anything or even went on a date. All he ever wants to spend all his money on is his car. It bothers me a lot and upsets me everyday I don't know how to talk about it with him.


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  • gold-digger in the making.

    • No actually I'm not a gold digger. I just want some attention from my boyfriend and to actually feel loved :/

    • You don't need gifts for that.

  • You are not (necessarily) a gold digger, I didn't see that at all. But when you say he doesn't take you on dates, then what is the nature of the relationship? Have you spent time together? What is that like? Netflix and chill?