I recently had a date with a new guy. He was crazy about me by the end of the date and said he's never felt that comfortable or relaxed around someone like that on a first date and didn't want to date anyone else for a while. Our date lasted 4 1/2 hours. I could tell I liked him too, but all I can tell on the first couple dates is whether or not I like a person, but not really to what degree or how far I want things to go in terms of a relationship. It usually takes me a little longer to really develop feelings for someone. I don't know how many more dates I should have with this guy before deciding what I want, because I don't want to hurt him or let him get more attached.
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I honestly don't think there's a certain amount of dates that it takes to know how you feel about someone. It just depends on the person and how much you have talked to them before dating. Sometimes all it takes is one date to know you like this person and want to see where it goes. Other times, it may take two or three dates to figure out how much you "click" with someone.
For me personally, I don't really "date" anyway. But, if I'm talking to a guy, I usually have a pretty good idea of how well we get along and how much I like him before I agree to go on a date with him. For your situation, if after a couple of more dates you don't feel anything or have a desire to develop a relationship with him, then that's probably a sign that he isn't the right person for you.0