Met a girl online quite a few months back and when the question of whether i've been with any girls or not was brought up, i said in the spur of the moment that i had been. I lied cuz i didn't want her to think any less of me and didn't want to seem inexperienced to her at the time. I regret it now knowing how close we've gotten to each other to the point of trying a long distance relationship and i feel horrible and guilty for holding on to this lie. We are gonna meet soon...
by the way she's also a virgin, but im so afraid of telling her cuz the most important thing to her is honesty and i feel like this could ruin everything. I dont want to potentially lose something great over a stupid lie i shouldn't have done.
How do i tell her? I really dont want to lose her
Most Helpful Girl
Tell her exactly what you just typed here...1
Most Helpful Guy
Dude, explain her everything, tell her exactly why. I'm sure she'll understand that you felt pressured, and you didn't know each other too good.
Be 100%, I doubt that it'll ruin things.1