The women that I've been trying to get to know and date don't feel the same as I feel for them. Do we usually go for someone that doesn't like us back on a constant basis? I feel like I'm looking in the wrong places lol
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In most cases what you like won't like you back, it has nothing to do with "looking in the wrong places or wrong kinds of girls". It's just life.
I particularly like Latina women, and I daresay I know more about Latin American and Mexican history than most, and I speak Spanish; and know all about Spanish musical idioms all the way from Flamenco to old school Spanish Jota to Cumbia to Tex-Mex, even classical stuff like Granados, Albeniz, Manitas de Plata, Segovia etc.; artists like Diego Rivera and Picasso, poets like Garcia-Lorca and Pablo Neruda - and even know how low riders employ hydraulics in their caruchas (having had a Mexican business associate help me meet some low-riders who were only too glad to show off), But for some reason, I have NEVER had a Latina woman ever like me, in fact, most kind of despise me, perhaps they think that me being White I am from the oppressor class or racist or something, or hear that American White men have been feminized? There is no blame there, they are entitled to be ignorant of the real truth, this is America. But even if they were NOT ignorant of my experiences and the real me, the chemistry STILL has to be there.
So truth be told the reciprocal feelings type relationship happens very rarely with most people, perhaps only 2-3 times in your entire life, sometimes more, sometimes never. Just keep keepin' on, and eventually you will run into the mutual-type situation.0