I have been single for a very long time and in fact have never had a proper relationship the most I had was a fling about 4 years ago and it only lasted a couple of months. Over the years I've put on weight and I'm not really feeling sexy anymore and just suffered from an eating disorder and my confidence just dropped but now I'm working on myself and getting myself back on track slowly but surely. All my friends have had at least 3-5 relationships and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. I don't whether it's my weight intimidating the men away in my life or I'm just not meant to be in a relationship
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The fact that your friends had 3-5 relationships just shows that their relationships were not stable whatsoever and aren't making any concrete quantifiable progress either.
Anyways, there is an upper threshold for what people just don't find attractive in terms of weight, but women tend to think that threshold is a way lower bar than it actually is. All you need is confidence.
Here you go: