Every Saturday night my girlfriend goes out to the club with her friend. She was getting ready tonight and she was wearing this reeally nice dress but it was too short in my opinion and a bit reavling with her boobs. I know she wants to be sexy but i think it was a bit too much and told her to wear something else less revealing. She got a bit upset but i don't want guys staring at her all night.
I'm in my first relationship and i'm just worried what happens at the club. I have never been but from what i hear guys always hit on girls. Was i too comanding? Yes or No and how can i deal with this the next time. I want my girlfriend to be happy but I don't know about going out like that. Any help i would appreciate.
Most Helpful Girl
Ehh, there's not really much you can do about it. I mean, her body, her choice and all. She can wear what she wants and you don't get to tell her what to do just because you're in a relationship with her. She should have autonomy over her choices. However, it's insensitive to do something that hurts you. Just explain to her how you feel and that you'd really prefer if she didn't wear that kind of thing, but don't turn it into an order and decide whether you can accept her choice when she's made it.0
Most Helpful Guy
You can't force modesty on someone who isn't naturally modest.
Personally I'd just avoid dating girls who go clubbing in slutty outfits. I know I'll get shit for this but I 100% believe those types of girls are more likely to have slept around and more likely to cheat.
girlfiend+alcohol+hot guys+grinding= not good0
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