One major problem, going on a date Saturday. If she does want me to kiss her and if its true that it seals your fate good or bad, I have never kissed a girl in my life. She has a long time boyfriend, I have never had a girlfriend in my 23 years. Therefore, how do I practice doing it right, I don't want to come across to her as a guy who has no clue what's he's doing whatsoever.
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The first kiss is more about chemistry, mood, the right moment and just going for it!
I have grossed out on a first kiss, but for things totally within the guys control ie breath, sticking his tongue down my throat right off the bat or groping me right off the bat.
I've had other kisses that weren't great, but I liked the guy & they didn't do any of the above gross things, so I gave it another chance. Some of them turned out to be pretty good kissers AFTER THEY WERE ABLE TO RELAX AND JUST ENJOY THE MOMENT.
Having said that, the info from others below is great. Make sure your breath is fresh and your mouth is closed and not too wet! Make sure she's had a chance to freshen up too, if possible, so she is enjoying the moment and not feeling self-conscious about her breath, lipstick, etc.
Keep it sweet and just a little longer than short! If you must count to 5 in your head, do it, then stop, but don't pull entirely away... if the mood seems right to go in for another, longer kiss, then just do that and ignore all the advice and enjoy it for as long as it lasts, but still, no tonsillectomy, or wandering hands... just kissing, a little tasting, a little exploring.
But if it's your first kiss, leave it as just a kiss. Don't try to go for anything further than that. You want her to want more right? Let her want more!
So, where do you put your hands? On her shoulders? In her hands? Maybe around her waist? In her hair? (If she seems to be getting into the kiss, and you are giving her another, she'll love that!)
Some of my most memorable kisses are stolen kisses, where I never expected it right then and was wondering if we were going to kiss and then wow! It happened! Those were experienced guys though, who knew how to find that moment. I don't suggest risking this as your first kiss unless you just know for sure the mood, moment and chemistry are absolutely right, but all guys should learn the art and magic of the stolen kiss at some point!
Just be sweet and enjoy it! Best of luck!