I've gone out with my guy friend and he picks me up and he pays even when I don't want him too. Is this a date? Or is this him being a nice friend? Should I ask him if it's a date?
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Im gonna tell you something from my experience. And i hope this helps you.
I had a similar situation to the one you are in. The only difference is that i was of course the guy doing all that stuff that your friend is doing. I met this girl when i was dating my ex girlfriend and i found her really attractive when i met her but if course i was in a relationship so i wasn't going to do anything. A few years later we broke up and she turned out to be one of my best friends. She was always there for me and we would hang out lots of times but none of us talked about dating. Later on i decided i wanted to date her so i started to pay for her all the time and ask her to come to the movies and go out for dinner and she was in the same positon as you were. She had bo idea i was trying to make it or turn it into a date because i was shy to make a move and didn't want to ruin what we had. Maybe she didn't feel the same way. So i had to do it slowly to see if she was responding to all those things. And i was always tlaking to her and once in a while we would flirt but never hooked up before or anything. In the end she couldnt hold it and she told me she liked me. And i told her i felt the same way and we dated. I remember her asking me why i didn't make a move before and i told her that it was cause i didn't want to ruin what we had. Anyways thats my story
If he is talking to you all the time and inviting you and paying for you all the time let me tell you that he is interested in you. A normal friend doesn't do that alll the time only sometimes. Like i said im telling you this cause i did it and still do it. So if you dont wanna have a conversation about that or tell him straight up then start flirting with him and see how he reacts and with that you will see if he is interested in you or not.
Hope this helps. Good luck!4