Hi, I'm 22 and a virgin. I used to like a guy before who happens to be my friend. I was talking to him for a while and thought he likes me. One day I told him I'm still a Virginia, and he kinda stop talking to me like he used to. I told my best friend if she can text him and stuff for me, and I guess he likes her instead and they been hooking up behind my back until I found out. Is being a virgin not desirable for men?
I never have a boyfriend before, it's probably because I am old school and expect guys to do it like how it used to be. Now guys just searching for sex and I don't want to lose it to just anyone. I want someone to like me for me first.
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Maybe just "admitting" you're a virgin is what drove him away. Like he might have thought you felt super insecure about being a virgin and you had a problem with being a virgin is what could have been his problem and not the fact that you were a virgin was the problem.
I'm also not saying you have a problem with it just that others might think you do. I don't think most guys would care too much if at all about a girl being a virgin. Just be careful though there's a lot of virgin hunter creeps out there that only want you to take your virginity.1