He said he loved me?

He said he loved me last night.
I said "If you loved me things would be different. We wouldn't be saying goodbye right now & you wouldn't message/want other girls"
He said none of that means he dosn't love me...
We are not exclusive by the way.

Thoughts? Is it love?


Have an opinion?

What Guys Said 1

  • So what's the question?

    • Well, thoughts i guess? Can he still love me even though we aren't together?

    • Maybe, but I'd say not really. When you are in real love, you only want to be with that person. However, a young man often is not aware that he is in love. The adage "You never know what you have until you have it no more." is a true adage often learned at the School of Hard Knocks. If he is non-exclusive though, he's not in real love with anyone (other than himself, maybe).

What Girls Said 1

  • He may love you but not in the way you want him to love you. People can love in various degrees and in various ways. Your love for him differs from his love for you.