Hmmm, I've just been realizing this! I never need space from communication, so I always feel like I did something wrong!
It's more of a guy thing.
So if a guy randomly disappears for a few days, it wasn't my fault?
If he doesn't like you, he will disappear permanently or at least for a long time. A week isn't a long time.
Alright, thank you so much for your help!
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Even if ya like em?
even though my best girl friend lives and goes to school in florida and i moved back home to nj, i sill haven't spoken to her in 5 months. before that, didn't speak to her for nearly a year.
It's not unheard of. hahaha
They are all giants. 6'4", 6'5" etc...
You only get to see those north of the wall... I reckon they're probably just going home then
Omg you're right! They just want my dragon blades!
Yeah they're sneaky! It's cause winter is coming so they tend to do that. It'll get better once spring comes around, it's a seasonal thing
Omg what cheeky little buggers! What do I do, Blobb?
You should probably let them know there aren't any whitewalkers. Gently though! Or they might have an existential crisis and flood ebay with second hand dragonglass
Omg, I must do so! And let them know they can't take my dragon-glass unless they agree to fight with me when winter comes. This is excellent advice! Thank you kind sir! ;)
They're don't hunt in the fall. None of the guys i talk to are hunters.
No, this is a continual occurrence with more than one guy. I'm not talking about a specific person.
usually #3 or they jacked off/had sex and lose interest in women for a day or two...
I go for weeks at a time all summer long, it is just paying the bills!
To girls you're interested in?
Oh you mean the guys that deliberately take a break away. Most guys need a break just like most girls do to! It is healthy!A week is a little much though, it likely means they are interested in only one thing... that on for a sprirt and then off again until they are ready for some more.
Well that wouldn't make sense bc I don't give them "that one thing." and they don't really push for it. Only flirt about it.
koodos to you, however sometimes guys who leave periodically are making the rounds with other women to see who will put out first.If your guy calls it off, then it is possible that he found someone that will put out or just do more! To bad for him if he does not get to know you better! I would seek someone who enjoys your company as much as possible!
Well that's not really it bc I'm the "weekend chick." I always get contacted during the weekend. They're all busy guys, but I just find it weird how they flow in and out. Never more than a week goes by though,
I think most guys are busy with sports and their buddies during the week when they are not in school or have a part-time job... so quite often girls are last on their list after all is said and done during the week.
I'm out of college and so are the guys I talk to. I'm in my mid-20s.
ahh... so they are mostly likely working to pay the rent all week long and saving their money for the weekend. That's when they come a knockin!You should ask them to go for coffee or something mid-week then, oooo they may have to drink one less beer!
So they're most likely busy and not even thinking of it?
I would think so... most guys have a physical labor type job at first until they get hired on to their career choice after college, so most are probably physically tired after a tough days work and just want to chill.
Well these guys have office jobs lol
likely they are just brain-dead tired... if they have to have a conversation, it might be just blah blah blah and then fall asleep on your lap hahaha
This is texting/calling/skyping I'm taking about!
All the more reason not to be interested in talking to much during the week... sometimes I stare at a screen all day long... I don't feel like staring at another for two or three hours in the evening.I would be out in my kayak on the lake riding the waves or riding my horse.
hmmmm... hmmmm makes sense! I would rather that too!
No, bc they keep coming back. It's a regular occurrence.
They do that with other girls as well Its called a black book
Dude, it's only a few days and I know they aren't seeing other girls. I'm the weekend girl and the weekday girl lol
What ever you tell yourself to make you sleep better
Idc either way, I'm seeing three guys atm
xD three guys I'm talking to 6 girls try again
Ok thought a bit1) I got super busy2) Once you've already hung out with someone, you've obviously caught up with whatever is going on in their life. So, what is the need to talk again in a few days.3) One of my friend's used to do this to a specific girl who he liked. But it was only one. Probably not your case
So the guy just get's busy and distracted with life and he comes around again when he's bored or has some downtime?
Well, that wouldn't be the correct way of putting it.What sort of 'friends' are you talking about here?
Guys I'm talking to who I know are interested in me. They initiate the conversations, flirt a lot, and we go out on dates or skype/call regularly.
Hey so you said you do it too but don't know why... Do you do it with girls you're interested in and want to see again? Like do you just text or call them up again when you are ready to make plans for another date?
@SidneyBeans he said why in the comments above
@Asker, it could be one of two things then if these are guys are calling/skypeing with you regularly after going away for some time - normal behaviour of guys (my point 2 above. I do it to my guy friends also) or he doesn't want to seem clingy. And yes if you call him out on it, it'll throw him off :PI dated this girl who just knew what was going on in my mind and called me out on it every time! Sometimes even wrongly so. But it sort of gave me a nice understanding that she gets the male psyche and I don't have to be pretentious cool or anything around her. haha Amazing woman
A guy who doesn't want to be around won't initiate conversations or will have longer off-times than just a week