Me and my girlfriend are in a argument cause i see her 2 times a week. we're both busy and making time is a bit tough. i told her "isn't texting you every day enough?". Then she got mad? Do i need to put more effort in or am i ok the way i'am?
Most Helpful Girl
The answer is, you clearly don't need to see her as much as she needs to see you to feel content. You said you're both busy, but she is willing to make room for you.
There is the possibility that she's only mad, because she wanted you to complain too instead of seemingly being ok with how things are, but let's assume this is not the case.
Some people solve that problem by inviting the bf/gf to almost all of their activities, and letting them decide if they want to join that gamers night or whatever.0
Most Helpful Guy
2 days out of 7 is a low number. Since that is bothering her and if you really like her as a girlfriend you can try to find time to meet on lunch or something just to put more an effort in seeing her. I'm sure she will appreciate it and see that you are a doer and not the guy to make excuses.0