So the two last times I was talking to guys it ended because they suddenly stoped showing as much interest as they did to begin with which made me think they lost any interest they had for me.
The first guy:
Met him on a dating app, very great guy, we went on two dates.. after the second date he stoped messaging me (pretty sure it has linked to the fact that I rejected a kiss on the first date, but initiated it on the first date )
The second guy:
Met him at a bar, made out, stayed in touch and he really wanted to meet me again, we met two days later, talked everyday , he invited me to a date-ish thing, but I had to cancle. We talked and he suddenly went from being very involved to using ages to answer me.
At first I Just assumed I did or said something that made them lose interest, but then I though about it and now I think that maybe they lost interest because they though I wasn't interested in them ( they made the effort to ask me out the two first times)
I actually planned to ask the second guy out, but he stoped showing as much interest around that time so I never did. So both guys messaged me a lot to begin with..
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-Why did you reject the guy's kiss on the first date? Are you having set of ''dating rules'' Are you structured person? Personally, I may be turn off by the fact of it since we both having a great time.
-Did he catch your clues ie, you smiled to him, physical proximity, touching him before he tried to kiss you? It may be awkward if he suddenly kisses you but there were no signs from you that you ''allow'' him to kiss you.
-Did you reschedule with him when you cancel? For me, if a girl doesn't counter offer me another date, I will take it as a low sign of romantic interest and moved on.0