How can I tell my boyfriend that I don't want to hang out with his friends?

The main reason is because I don't speak their language so good (spanish) I am an exchange student and I feel very excluded when they are speaking so fast around me and I can't say anything.
They are all guys and he is always inviting me. He wants me to go today but I would prefer to be just with him.

Should I tell the truth? How can I say it without seeming rude?


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What Guys Said 1

  • Tell him you feel uncomfortable around everyone when they don't speak English since you don't know what's going on and can't join in so you feel left out

    • English is also not my language barrier but is more easy for me than Spanish , Spanish I can understand it but I am also shy to speak with a lot of native people.

    • I guess just basically tell him how you feel, he should understand

What Girls Said 1

  • Tell him exactly what you wrote here. He will understand, I know how awkward can be the language barrier.