I'm going out with a guy for the third time. I'm the one who asked him out. I made a reservation in a restaurant and my friend was pissed and she called me stupid. She says he is the guy and he should pay. I don't like it when guys pay for me. Would I look weird if I pay? and what do you guys think about that.
Most Helpful Guy
Those who do the asking should pay, regardless of gender, unless it was mutually agreed that either the other will pay or the bill will be split.
Oh, and your friend is the stupid one. She's probably just jealous because she isn't the one who is going on a date. But given her dumb views, I can see why.1
Most Helpful Girl
I say if you feel like paying then pay. My rule is if I make the plans, I will pay.
In all fairness, it's not the guy's job to pay everytime. Yes, he should want to impress you, but it doesn't require money to do that.
I know some people are still fairly traditional. But there is nothing wrong with paying.
It won't look weird if you pay. If he feels weird about it, then he can always offer to pay.
in my opinion it shows that the girl is willing to pay for stuff and isn't into the guy for money.
Also, there's nothing wrong with asking a guy out on a date. It shows you're interested in him.0