So in three weeks my boyfriend and his good guy friends are going for a bachelors trip for a weekend, and im pretty sure strippers are included in this trip.
So guys.. is it lame that your girlfriend would get mad at you being around strippers for a bachelors event?
Girls is this okay or not okay?
Honestly if he behaves and doesn't do anything shady im ok with it.. we have been together for 6 months now.
Most Helpful Guy
That is probably the SAFEST Bachelor party with strippers EVER!! His friends are all single? They are totally going to be hitting on her, and if she is like at all 'professional' she will get HUGE tips, and never let anyone do anything she doesn't want, let alone, your fiancé!!
On of my female friends told me her fiancé was having a bachelor party and she knew that one of his friends hired a stripper (actually two, as we found out later) but she knew HER guy, and he wasn't going to do anything but watch, maybe.
So we talk, and she tells me that she trusts him, and KNOWS he won't, but she doesn't sound convincing!
I tell her to tell him to go, enjoy himself, and come back and share some erotic way to play, that he learned from the 'stripper'!
He's fine with the stripper, but her request makes him 'honest' because he is thinking about her, and she can't lose, because he won't do anything (he's not the kind that would) but he wants to show her something 'erotic' so he's going to try to impress her, even if he doesn't get sht from the stripper! He doesn't!
I know, and we google something and she is just BEAMING, Monday, at work!!0
Most Helpful Girl
It upsets me but I would never toss the idea out the window. However, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have a lot more trust established than you within your relationship. My beat advice to you would be to take a huge breather and then tell him your concerns. Make sure its not confrontational. Just tell him you are okay with strippers if he doesn't disrespect the relationship. Which I'm sure he won't! But afterall, I don't know who he is or what type of person he is so I can't judge what he will and won't do. Just voice your concerns. Its the only way to take some weight off your shoulders.0