I find it really hurtful. For example one guy told me he stopped talking to me because he knows that I'm the type of girl who would leave him in 10 years. One guy I was seeing cut me off before I went on a vacation and when I confronted him about it he said "well you were going on vacation I'm sure you were going to sleep with a bunch of guys anyway".
Other guys judged me saying they were looking for a serious relationship and I don't seem like I'd be a good caregiver.
These are just some examples. In reality, I'd be a great mother if I ever had to be. I've had lots of pets who all lived past their age expectancy and were very well taken care of (even my Vets were impressed with how well I took care of my furry & feathery babies).
I'm very loyal and I would never cheat. I would never leave anyone without trying really hard to make it work first (unless if it was cheating, I couldn't forgive someone who cheats on me or does something equally as bad such as emotional/physical abuse).
I don't sleep around. So even though I travel a lot that doesn't mean I'll take a guy home or go home with a guy. That has never happened!
So now I'm talking to a guy I really like and he made a comment that was rather hurtful and judgmental.. and I'm thinking, how do I handle this? Should I say something to him? This time I defended myself, but I feel like it sounds fake. Like I just said what I said to make myself seem good to him.