How long do you wait before asking a girl out?

For you how long would u leave it? The guy I'm talking to hasn't asked me yet and it bothering me. Sometimes I feel like he likes me to take the lead or his a little shy so I don't know if he's waiting for me to drop a suggestion I just really wanted him to asked me out.


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  • why don't you just ask him out instead?

    • I've been thinking about it but I don't want him to think I'm desperate.

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    • Because I don't want to step on his toes thinking I'm being the pushy one as silly as is sounds I like the man to ask first. I've never asked anyone out I don't even know how to go about it.

    • "Because I don't want to step on his toes thinking I'm being the pushy one"

      works both ways, believe it or not. i like women to ask first. do you honestly think guys like putting themselves out there? we get rejected waaaaay more asking out girls than the other way around.

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What Guys Said 3

  • Depends, but not long

  • Maybe your''e not giving him obvious hints that you like him so he too is very hesitant to make a move in case he is wrong and ruins the relationship you guys had

    • I say he knows I like him by now. We speak daily even if we don't he still texts me goodnight and good morning so i feel like his interested I just don't now why he doesn't do it.

    • hmmm, he's prob just unsure of what he wants

  • Are you saying that only certain men you talk to, should be asking you out?


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