Insulting someone is never the right thing to do. Instead of asking her if she was okay you were more worried about your car. Material things are always replaceable
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She was ok and I did also say sorry today. I told her to try and pay it full and she said yes
That's so tough. I know at the spare of the moment you're pissed. I would be too.. but maybe next time not use those harsh words. A mistake. Things happen.
As insurance for you will go up, best bet is paying the cost. Sorry bro... The things you do when you're in a relationship.
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Lol omg. Relax. If ya have insurance just say you were driving. Your deductible should cover it. But ya never heard this information from me.
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My insurance will go up though will it not? i think it will and i have a'09 bmw 335i, So it will be costly
I'm cringing. Yea it will so tell her to pay the fuckin difference it's her fault anyway. But don't say it like that. Request it. Because she does owe you at least that much. But try to refrain from name calling. I understand you were upset and that should be outta your system now.
LOL... no we don't, but we feel really bad when we do. He was wrong to berate her, though. If it were my situation, I would offer to pay the deductible, then I would get out of the relationship and leave him to be alone with his precious car, which he obviously cares more for than me. Only girls and douchebags drive BMW's, anyway.
@cankles Ha Beamers are nice ass cars. Yeah I would and have numerous times had girlfriends wreck my car and I never freaked out too bad or called the idiots idiots although I wanted to. I guarantee you she won't pay anything or much on this guys car.
Yea, but we all make mistakes. It may be different if she didn't agree to pay. But the guy said she did agree to pay. It's always better to give people the benefit of the doubt and see what they do with it instead of not giving them the benefit of the doubt and then looking like a bitch in the end because that person would've cooperated. You know?
@Sdavis2604 Sure i would ask her/him if they are going to pay for it in full price. If they said no, or i would not receive the money in a week, then it's game over for them and i would be suing them straight away, this is if they would be my GF/BF. If they were a STRANGER, then i would be a lot harsher. You see? i am being nice here, a bitch/bastard would kick the shit out of you.
That's true. I just tend to be more forgiving and know that some people can't afford to get a lot of money saved up in a week. Not saying you're a terrible person, we just have different options and that's ok. That's what makes us unique and awesome. I do think your approach would be appropriate if they refused to pay.
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You have the right to be pissed. But maybe after you should have just told her that you didn't mean it!
i told her i was sorry for saying that to her
I guess there is not much you can do then!
Insulting someone is never the right thing to do. Instead of asking her if she was okay you were more worried about your car. Material things are always replaceable
She was ok and I did also say sorry today. I told her to try and pay it full and she said yes
As are humans, so your logic is inaccurate.
That's so tough. I know at the spare of the moment you're pissed. I would be too.. but maybe next time not use those harsh words. A mistake. Things happen.
As insurance for you will go up, best bet is paying the cost. Sorry bro... The things you do when you're in a relationship.
Lol omg. Relax. If ya have insurance just say you were driving. Your deductible should cover it. But ya never heard this information from me.
My insurance will go up though will it not? i think it will and i have a'09 bmw 335i, So it will be costly
I'm cringing. Yea it will so tell her to pay the fuckin difference it's her fault anyway. But don't say it like that. Request it. Because she does owe you at least that much. But try to refrain from name calling. I understand you were upset and that should be outta your system now.
i will talk to her tomorrow. I will say sorry and also ask her to pay for at least 3/4
Nice😊I'm sure everything will work itself out
thanks
Anytime😊
i think that was a rude response, obviously she didn't hit it on purpose. but i do think she should chip in to fix it
I did say sorry to her today and i will make it up to her (that i said she was a dumb blonde). She said she would pay for it.
It happened to my wife and to me. It never got any of us mad.
I told her i was sorry 3 times and that she meant more to me then my car and i should of not acted that way
I would shout at her, but i wouldn't call her names. Although if she got bitchy and say she wouldn't pay the damages then i would have to sue her.
I told her i was sorry 3 times and that she meant more to me then my car and i should of not acted that way
@Asker Well if it makes you feel happy. I wouldn't do that until she would pay for the damages.
Accidents happen! If the car is so important, why did you let her borrow? You can't talk to someone like that, it is disrespectful and prejudiced.
if she was my girlfriend... she'd be the kinda person offer to pay/help out w/o me asking.
She won't pay to fix it. Shit happens and it's only money but women sure love to destroy a man's vehicles.
LOL... no we don't, but we feel really bad when we do. He was wrong to berate her, though. If it were my situation, I would offer to pay the deductible, then I would get out of the relationship and leave him to be alone with his precious car, which he obviously cares more for than me. Only girls and douchebags drive BMW's, anyway.
@cankles Ha Beamers are nice ass cars. Yeah I would and have numerous times had girlfriends wreck my car and I never freaked out too bad or called the idiots idiots although I wanted to. I guarantee you she won't pay anything or much on this guys car.
you're kind of a douche...
Sue her. She has to take responsibility.
oh god. Not sure, i'm not going that far. I told her i was sorry for the blonde joke. and she said she would pay for the full damage.
@Asker Good that she is paying for it.
Suing is definitely too far. If she willing to pay in full, then good. But suing is a little over the top.
@Sdavis2604 Yes, but if not then suing is the only option, she sounds reckless and deserves to be taught a lesson.
Yea, but we all make mistakes. It may be different if she didn't agree to pay. But the guy said she did agree to pay. It's always better to give people the benefit of the doubt and see what they do with it instead of not giving them the benefit of the doubt and then looking like a bitch in the end because that person would've cooperated. You know?
@Sdavis2604 Sure i would ask her/him if they are going to pay for it in full price. If they said no, or i would not receive the money in a week, then it's game over for them and i would be suing them straight away, this is if they would be my GF/BF. If they were a STRANGER, then i would be a lot harsher. You see? i am being nice here, a bitch/bastard would kick the shit out of you.
That's true. I just tend to be more forgiving and know that some people can't afford to get a lot of money saved up in a week. Not saying you're a terrible person, we just have different options and that's ok. That's what makes us unique and awesome. I do think your approach would be appropriate if they refused to pay.