Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't do the beach because I don't really like the beach, secondly when a guy asks me to the beach I assume it's for the sake of seeing me in a bikini, especially if it's only the third date. But if he insisted, I wouldn't dress in a bikini. I'd probably just go in shorts and a tanktop. It isn't an insecurity thing, I just prefer to leave some things to the imagination.