he said it was to have the last word and to show that he was polite. I got really upset.
what do you think it was on his mind?
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Personally, i can't see why anyone would stay in touch with an ex. Unless they have children together.
Messaging an ex when a guy has a girlfriend is very disrespectful towards her. Plus, it's encouraging the ex to stay in touch too, and giving mixed signals.
If two people who have had a history together remain in touch... it's either because they were never in love or still are.
That would be a dealbreaker for me, not due to insecurities, but i have boundaries and i won't allow anyone to go beyond them.
Contacting her is evidence she is on his mind.