Should I let him chase me? He should know what he's missing and know my worth.. He's expressed interest in me. He's gone a bit quiet cause he's been busy and so have i. I haven't seen him for a while and i want to message.. should i let him chase.. Guys like to chase.. Whats your opinions on that guys? he should though right.. I want him to know I'm still interested in him. Kinda stuck..
Most Helpful Guy
If a girl tries to make me chase her I just let her run. Relationships to me are houses not games. I spend time when I can building the relationship brick by brick overtime for as long as it needs to be built. There might be space between dates or convos but I keep working on the building. If I have let up and I'm not working too hard recently and she wants to keep the pace of building up she should put in a little more effort. That's what lets me know this is really important to her. It lets me know that this house is gonna be worth something because she really cares about it. If she's constantly running away from the building site expecting me to come chase her and reassure her of her worth to me so she'd come back I'd just let her run away. In my book she's a bad worker and I'll find someone else. I don't chase I build. So if she wants a guy to chase and hunt her she needs someone else in her life.1
Most Helpful Girl
The trick is to act interested but not overzealous about it. You have to message him sometimes. Sometimes guys can be a little dense and if you don't show interest they don't take it as hard to get they are very literal creatures. I would text him but be casual. Guys like to chase but they also like to be chased.0