Most Helpful Guy
If a girl tries to make me chase her I just let her run. Relationships to me are houses not games. I spend time when I can building the relationship brick by brick overtime for as long as it needs to be built. There might be space between dates or convos but I keep working on the building. If I have let up and I'm not working too hard recently and she wants to keep the pace of building up she should put in a little more effort. That's what lets me know this is really important to her. It lets me know that this house is gonna be worth something because she really cares about it. If she's constantly running away from the building site expecting me to come chase her and reassure her of her worth to me so she'd come back I'd just let her run away. In my book she's a bad worker and I'll find someone else. I don't chase I build. So if she wants a guy to chase and hunt her she needs someone else in her life.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm going to tell you what my guy friends (I have a number of them) have told me: if a man is interested, he will MAKE himself ready to date. he will overcome whatever hang ups he has and ask you out. if he's NOT chasing you or asking you out, then there's probably a reason. maybe not even a good one, but good enough for him. you want him to chase you? stop making yourself available.