Why does every guy I meet especially online only want to hook up or be friends with benefits? I feel like there's something wrong with me or something ):, like I don't get why we just can't be friends at first without doing suiting sexual, I mean they have other friends that are girls and they don't do anything sexual with them. I give up I don't think I'll ever find the right guy ): but is because of something I'm doing?
Most Helpful Guy
I don't understand. Where are you meeting these guys? Are you using Tinder to make friends?0
Most Helpful Girl
Ok firstly there is nothing wrong with you. ;) Guys are wired different than us ladies. Guys have three categories to place us in. friends with benefits, long term, and friend. friends with benefits is pure sexual attraction, there is no desire for a serious relationship. They are turned on by what they see, and would like to act upon just the physical. Long term is for those that they see a future with, they connect on a deep level and are physically attracted. And friends well its just that. You are someone that they can share common interest but nothing further. Now friends can also be the back burner for a potential too so all is not lost. All in all men are very very simple. You can tell the difference once you understand what their mind is set on. A guy looking for a serious relationship will court you, woo you, go out of his way and take hell for you. Don't give up, just relax, smile, and make the men who wanted just a sexual conquest eat their hearts out. You got this.1