I'm not angry or anything, I think it's funny actually and so this guy today on Facebook, we have mutual co-workers so we know each other. He strikes up a talk this morning, asking me out which was so nice so then he starts bringing up what he wants, etc. And he goes 'women these days date 3/4 guys at a time,' well I also don't do that so I get that. But then he says "I'm looking to have fun," which means he does not want anything serious... and so all at once he wants the WOMAN to be exclusive (don't date other guys) and yet he doesn't want to be serious with anyone - really?
Talk about wanting to have your cake and eat it too.
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He assumes that women have options and bracketed you in that (pretty accurate generally). So he finds solace that he can read you and that he knows what you are capable of. He then uses that as leverage to make his attempt to use you as a nsa girl. By him assuming you know what you are capable of, when he throws out the "fun only" it doesn't seem so bad for him because he puts himself in your easy options.1
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