Most Helpful Guy
"always pick some jerk to date." Well don't fucking pick the jerk! xD You claim to have it harder because you choose the wrong guy? I'm sorry, but having it hard means that you don't have options, not that you chose the wrong one.
If women moved their butt out of the seat and approached men, they could go for the guy they wanted, but they don't, they rather sit down and wait.
Don't complain that you have it harder when you don't do anything to make it easier, it's like the guy that never went training and complains that the coach doesn't put him in the game.
If you don't make an effort, you shut up and don't complain.
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry this is a stupid question. You cannot say who has it harder between guys and girls in a relationship because everyone is different. Guy have as much trouble in relationships as girls do. I mean yeah I date a lot of jerks but guys can date bitches. Its not like only one sex is mean to the other. Its a 2 way street. In saying that, guys excuse me girls do their fair share of flirting & approaching in these modern times plus the majority of guys only approach girls who they think they may have a chance with, i. e. they are getting good vibes. In which case do you think that you are getting those vibes out of chance? Usually if I see a cute guy then I will do something to catch his attention and keep the flirting going till he approaches me... unless I am drunk and then I will just go flirt with him. Most girls are looking for the guys they want they do no just sit at home waiting for jerks to hit on them. Some people are so ignorant, honestly. Long story short there is no correct generalized answer because it varies person to person. Also what if the relationship is between the same sex. Then who has it harder. It just doesn't work. Don't want to sound like I am attacking you but you asked this question to start a debate and get a rise out of people so here you go.