Most Helpful Guy
Your friends are bitter and jaded, there are people who are in loving and healthy relationships and have been for years. Of course their relationships have never been plain sailing because arguments and disagreements happen but if you go through life with the mind set of your sister and her friends you are doomed for failure.
Most Helpful Girl
Aww sweetie I'm so sorry that you had such a bad experience with this :(
first off, you are right about all relationships having their flaws (arguments and stuff). Heck me and my boyfriend argue a lot, but that's what makes a relationship healthy. However, not every good relationship is not abusive or any of that at all. In fact, it's not hard to tell if a good relationship is abusive or bad, because both people will be unhappy to the point where you can't hide it (trust me, I was in a abusive relationship once and it only lasted a day when I said you know what, peace out).
When I say this I mean it in the most respectful terms possible, it seems as if your friends or aqanitences are bitter about their past relationships, and you should not let their opinions influence you. You should follow that voice in your heart that says maybe I should start to find someone. You are allowed to be happy. DO NOT DENY YOURSELF THAT RIGHT.
Also, there IS such thing as a perfect guy, and trust me when I say this, you will know when you find him.
Go out there, follow your heart and allow yourself to be happy. You will need to have your heart broken every now and then but I promise you will find that perfect guy <3
best of luck!!