So here's the thing! I like older men! It's not that I don't like guys my age just all the guys I've been attracted to is like 20+ years older then me. Like then guy I like now. I'm 21 and he's 45. Is that too weird? I mean i know society will probably looked down on it. But, does it really matter about age?
Most Helpful Guy
I think once you get past the point where it is legal, then age gaps don't matter much. It has to do with the interaction between the two people, and if that works, then it doesn't matter. Yeah, there are going to be people who judge it, but that is with every couple, not just those with big age gaps2
Most Helpful Girl
I think 20+ years is a bit much but that's just my opinion. If you like older men, you like older men. It's your personal preference. My boyfriend is 7 years older than I am. Although the age gap didn't necessarily cause any issues in our relationship, there are some cons about it too. For example, we have very different opinions about music, humour and whatnot. He likes all the oldschool stuff while I'm the opposite - it makes us relate to things in a lesser degree.1