I can't help thinking of the two of them together, maybe it's me being childish, but it is stuck in my head and I can't help it, even though neither of them did anything wrong...
Is it legitimate to back off completely for this reason?
It gives me anxiety..
- give it a little more time
Most Helpful Girl
I mean if you aren't into it you don't need an excuse to leave but I don't think it's a big deal. I voted give it a little more time.
Most Helpful Guy
I think it depends on whether they're still friends, and on how close they are as friends. If they're still best friends and they do all kinds of things together, that's a red flag. It sends the wrong message for her to be with you and still do things alone with a guy she was once intimate with. If it causes anxiety for you now, it's not going to get any better with time. I'm sure she wouldn't want you hanging out with a girl you were intimate with, so why should you tolerate the same from her?