we agreed to go to the beach on the third date. 15 minutes before the date she messaged and cancells the beach date and offers to meet 3 hours later and go to the cinema. the reason for flaking was her studies. I felt that she was reluctant at first to go to the beach at first but then she agreed then she flaked 15 minutes before the date. i know that studies is not the reason. why is that and how should I act because I hate flaking the last minute?
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Because she was nervous about how she would look. You didn't think twice about it, but you are pretty much naked at the beach. Lots of people don't feel comfortable with this. So she flaked because she was afraid of you seeing her half naked.0