So since I can't seem to meet anyone interesting irl I have decided to join a datingapp. But what normally happens when I start chatting with a guy is that the convo falls flat and we never plan a date.. even the time s when I feel like im making a little effort.
So any advice on how to keep convos interesting enough to actually get a date out of it?
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I online date, and I don't have this problem. My advice is to stay interesting. Don't ask him polite, small talk style questions like you're at the water cooler at work. Do respond to what he shares with interest. Do bring up a new, fun topic if he seems to be running out of things to say. He doesn't want to do all the work.
Also, don't be too eager by ALWAYS answering right away. You do have a life outside online dating, and you don't want him thinking otherwise.
End all of your conversations with a genuine compliment. Just pick something he said that stood out to you in a good way, and say what you thought of it. Flattery is your friend.
Tbh, though, I stop answering if he doesn't ask for my number in 3 days and a date by the end of day 5. If he's not making moves, he's not that interested.0