I will try and keep this as short as I possibly can. I met a guy on tinder at the start of June this year called James. Things were fantastic at the start, really exciting like most new things are. I had just started a new job at that time and he asked me a few times to meet and I just didn't have the time but we agreed when we will soon. (We live 50 miles from each other) We've been talking everyday since, sending pictures and getting on pretty well. The last month or two he has been really distant though. Sometimes I'm feeling like I'm pestering him when I text. He did tell me that he was just grumpy these days and don't take it personally. He's still talking about when we meet up etc but anytime I mention it he avoids the topic. I asked him yesterday "is there room for a little one?" implying I wanted to go up and he said "I'll think about it" with a sunglasses emoticon. Also, the last day or two he's stopped sending wink emoticons and he always did. We've never talked on the phone which should raise red flags but he seems genuine every other way. Or maybe I just can't see it. I'm so confused as to why he won't meet me yet. Also, anytime he knows I've been out he's asked if I've got any action or kisses. Is he doing that because he might be jealous or just nosey?
Sorry for the really long post. Basically, I just wanted some people's thoughts. Am I being stupid hanging on for this guy? Am I reading too much into the emoticons? Is he interested in me or just the flirty text and pictures?
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I think this is a good opportunity to lay it all out on the table.
"Hey, dude. I like you. I really want to meet up. When are you free this week?" and if he avoids the topic again, then you can forget about him.1