I live in a conservative country and this guy is from Europe. I know this guy for only three weeks, and he kissed me on the second date (last weekend). It's actully too fast for me but I kind of enjoy it. Now he asks if i would go to his place this weekend, which means we are going to have sex. I am not a virgin and I really want to have sex with him, but I am afraid that this is too fast that might causes him lose interest of me?
In my country, only couple have sex, otherwise it would be considered as play/casual, which i really don't want. I know it's different in western countries... so here is my question:
1. Is it too fast to have sex at the fourth date?
2. Does guy lose interest if a girl is easy to have sex with?
3. How to do if I don't want to be too easy but not make him feel be rejected?
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Just tell him how you feel, doesn't mean you guys can't mess around (Without having sex.)
Im sure the dude will understand, just explain your background and culture and that its not that you aren't interested - you'd just feel much more at ease if you took it at a pace you were comfortable with.
You need to inform him this, otherwise he's going to think its something he's done wrong if you pull away or act weird during sex.0