So I am 24 years old, grew up really shy and not confident whatsoever. Over the years I gained the confidence and but I am still a little shy. Due to that, my dating life is almost non existant. Basically I am a late bloomer, I have been asking women out, but for me, it's hard to meet a girl that has mutual interest. And with that, a lot of rejection has been going on. Now, I don't give off the "Im a fuckboy" vibe or a "player" vibe too. I only have been told that I have a real confident demeanor. The rejection absolutely sucks, I am finding it difficult to meet a girl with mutual attraction, hobbies, goals and values, etc. What helps you get past it, move forward, and try to meet someone else?
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The point that there 8 billion people on this rock gives me a confident hope for the future. Or in this case your future I got my girl. all's I had do was totally destroy my life and turn it around and start living for others rather my selfish wants.
Hopefully you are young enough that you don't have to go through all that turmoil before you find exactly what you desire.
same advice i would give someone that is going through a break up i will give to you. before I do though. the reason why everybody gets the same advice is because it works and has been working long before i figured it out and even before I was born or even my parents.. getting the hint? Don't buck the system that designed to fulfill your dreams no matter what they are.
Ok here it is: STOP LOOKING for IT !
You should however thourally think and ask yourself (your CREATOR) what you are truly desiring. be careful what you ask for, I didn't see anything about desiring love are you sure you want to leave that out?
Ok next is believe with all your heart that this is going to happen in a POSITIVE manner. ex: I want a crisp fresh apple. do NOT: i sure hope i don't get a rotten apple. this example is very important you draw what you think , even though in your mind it is the same it is drawing negativity that spawns negativity.
i can see that by your setup on what you desire you are drawing the results you posses right at this very moment.
and lastly: receive what you desire deep in your soul by knowing it , pretending what you will say to her and what you'll do together , posses those thoughts of you two together. Even if it hasn't arisen yet just know with blind Faith that you will be fulfilled.
by doing this you have just been given the secret to success. your welcome
keep in mind do not look for (her) it. just faithfully believe and she will cross your path in the effortless of connections.
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