We have been together for 4 weeks or so now and the problem is she has 4 really close friends, and one of them hates me. The other 3 like me.
The thing is she doesn't wanna tell anyone about us because she doesn't know how her friend will react.
Now idon't care about her friends knowing or not. All i care about is to be able to spend time with her at school which won't happen if her friends think she doesn't like me.
Most Helpful Girl
Why does she care so much about what her friend thinks? She's the one dating you, not her friend. Anyways..
Don't push her. Your relationship has just started. When you guys are more into each other she'll probably let her friend know and you won't have to be hiding.
If after some more time she's still all stressed out about her friend knowing then you'll have to talk about it because that will mean she's not giving you the place you deserve.1
Most Helpful Guy
I think a major issue is the long term implications of your girlfriend not wanting to tell her friends. the question becomes how long can the relationship go on in the shadows if she won't reveal it to her friends.
I think that you should just talk to your girlfriend. say I understand that your friends may not like me a lot but I'd like the opportunity to make a 2nd impression0