Most Helpful Girl
I feel like this could potentially turn into mentally abusive. If you're happy very well then.. if you're not think of changes that you can make, you can just not want to work out because of the fact you'd get sore, you get sore from anything whether it's you helping someone out by lifting their bags for them or even sex..
Most Helpful Guy
I don't really see how her panties falling off of you proves anything other than that she has very large panties
if you don't like the status of the submissive in the relationship then you shouldn't accept it. she should respect you and your desires and if your desire isn't to be marginalized then you absolutely 100% should not accept that position