I feel so depressed. I'm a 26 yo guy and all I want is a girlfriend for once in my life... I'm still a virgin too. I'm just too scared to talk to girls, they are very intimidating and kind of scary. I'm a clean shaven groomed guy and I go to the gym everyday. None of this is helping because I have no confidence and I can't swoon a girl with words...
How do I get a girlfriend? I Have no experience with girls at my age, am I doomed?
Most Helpful Girl
Don't be scared to talk to girls. A simple hey or hello can start up a conversation. Find someone that you are interested in and casually talk to them. You are also not doomed. I am still a virgin as well. Some people aren't ready for those types of things or just don't get the chance to do those things. Just go out with a group of friends (include girls) and then get a girls number so you all can hangout again sometime. You have to be confident about yourself (girls like that), but don't be cocky. Make a girl laugh. If you can make a girl laugh, then you are all set.0
Most Helpful Guy
Girls are people, dont approach with the intent to get a girlfriend. Just walk up to a girl and say hi my name is_________ its that simple, if she doenst respond its not necessarily you, she may have a boyfriend, girlfriend, or just not interested. But just getting shot down (or not getting anywhere doesn't mean you give up). Do it again and again. (Supermarkets, gym, the park, school, mall, anywhere you see a girl you think you might like)
remember you are just talking to another person, if something comes out of it great, if not you had a nice conversation with someone, trust me it gets easier each time you do it.1