You've talked about your relationship and where you are both at. He's not ready for a full on committed relationship yet, but you're well on your way to a committed relationship with him. He feels you two are just not on the same page, and so he says he wants to be honest with you about where he's at.
He says he wants to slow things down. Hurt, you tell him that maybe it's just best for you two to go your separate ways, because you think he just doesn't want to committ to you. He says he doesn't want that, and that he can't deny his feelings and attraction for you. He also says that he wants to be in a relationship with you, just not right now.
If you tell someone you want to slow things down, do you pull back a little from them? He does show interest in person, but at the same time he can seem disinterested too (in texts only).
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I don't buy all that, if you like someone being in a committed relationship isn't moving too fast it just means you take yourselves off the market and work at the relationship at whatever speed. People who say they aren't ready are just indecisive and selfish, they want you to wait around on their whim and they act all conflicted over it so you give them leeway, they don't like you enough to cut the bullshit so cut them loose.2
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