This girl and I used to go out on dates and we became really great friends over the year we have known each other. We sincerely care about each others well being and I feel she has some slight feelings for me but she has a boyfriend (who she hasn't told me about and keeps a secret from me).
I just can't be her friend anymore. If she is dating him, then so be it, but I have no interest in trying to keep our friendship when I want to be her boyfriend.
She recently moved away and we sent some text messages back and forth to each other before she moved to another state..
She was telling me "This isn't goodbye" and "I'll be seeing you" and I told her the odds aren't in our favor to remain as close as we are and she said "We will make them in our favor!"
Is it wrong for me to want to move on? I feel like a horrible person
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I completely understand why you would feel that way. The odds aren't in your favor. Long distance relationships don't work out very often. If you don't think she's worth it, then don't go for it. If you REALLY like her, try out the long distance relationship thing. It doesn't hurt to try.0