So I've given up on going for girls thinking they'll like me the way I am. All these douchy guys have girls going crazy over them. I want to throw my ideals and beliefs about relationships out the window and become what society thinks women want. I'd get fit where the most fashionable clothing and hairstyles and act confident/cocky trying to get as many girls as possible acting like the exciting outgoing guy girls want at my age. At my core underneath this new persona I would be the quiet geeky nerdy quiet caring loving and hopless romantic I am. Still dreaming about finding the person I want share everyday with and love them for all the flaws they have. I'm wondering if this is a good idea? Become the "player" the guy who gets all the ladies. Although it wouldn't really be me maybe someone could learn to like the person under the mask I'd create. My options are give up on dating or change? Which do think I should do? by the way I'm not bad looking I could easily conform to the stereotypical douchy "hot guy" with some working out and wardrobe change. Any suggestions?
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You'll get girls, definitely. Most of them will just want a hookup though cause you won't be good for anything serious.
You'll also get girls that think you'll be different with her or that she'll change you, then they'll realize you're a douche and leave you.
So yeah, being a douche will get you plenty of girls but if you want something serious, you better not be a douche.2